We will encounter many problems in life and work, which seem to be habit problems, self-discipline problems or ability problems, but in fact the root cause is the problem of ambition. We can judge whether this person has found his definite life ambition and mission through many performances in life. For example, the following manifestations:
"Buddha-style", you can't get motivated
in anything. , work well, and also know that they need to make money and honor their parents, but they just don't feel motivated and feel very "Buddha Tie". It must be pointed out that the so-called "Buddhist" state is not a natural state, and it does not mean that people are born with no desires and desires, and can only have fighting spirit after being ignited by others. From birth, a person is full of curiosity and curiosity to explore the world, as well as the inner urge to prove himself. The symptoms of "Buddhism" are just a manifestation of stress syndrome, which is the loss of focus in the mind after being oppressed. If you remove a person's secular goals and social pressure, and take him into the wild, you will surely be as happy as a grand monkey who has just jumped out of the Wuxing Mountains. Where there is a place with beautiful scenery, where is there anything Wild flowers and wild fruits, he will definitely see them. The current situation is that even if many people go to scenic tourist attractions, they will stay in the hotel to sleep late and play mahjong instead of feeling the natural scenery and enjoying the beauty brought by the scenery.
Unambitious and tend to have negative judgments of human nature The person who
wants to do things is energetic, actively seeks cooperation, and he can use his enthusiasm to ignite others. He knows how to use people's strengths, not to expose people's shortcomings. People without ambition exude mediocrity, helplessness, decadence, and intolerance. He speaks badly of others, cold-blooded, selfish, and uncooperative, so that the society can take responsibility for his inaction, and he needs such an imperfect society to footnote his failed life.
money worship
Needless to say how important money is, but for those who have dreams, money is just a tool for pursuing their dreams and the result of realizing their dreams, and they enjoy the process. A person without ambition can't stand the dull feeling of long-term effort. He can't find joy in his daily life and work, and he can't experience a sense of accomplishment. Therefore, becoming a distant and illusory rich person has become his obsession. He believes that money can solve all problems in life. He wants to travel around the world, he wants to go on a trip, he wants a luxury car villa, the main purpose is to escape the current poor life. He will put money above all emotional, rational, fair, good and evil standards. Only money can give him a sense of security.
The center of life is wandering.
His life has no center of his own. When others say let's go out and play together, he goes out to play. When others say that this boss is not good, if we don't work with him, he will resign. He didn't know what he wanted, and certainly didn't understand the meaning of what he was doing. This is all because there is no master in his heart. When desires come, go with desires; when troubles come, go with troubles; when prejudices come, go with prejudices.
Love to make excuses The first reaction to
a problem is to take the blame. He painstakingly found a lot of people to take the blame for him, such as his family, his lover, his company, his friends, etc.
A student of Wang Yangming, a great philosophical scholar in the Ming Dynasty, once asked him for advice: "I am inherently stupid, and I am hampered by fame and wealth. I admit that I study for the imperial examinations, but I feel pain in my heart. If I want to give up the imperial examinations, I will be forced to do so. Because of the pressure of parents, I can’t give up, what should I do?”
Wang Yangming replied: “There are too many people who blame their parents for the burden of the imperial examinations. In the end, it’s just that they have no aspirations. If the aspirations are firm, even if the conscience dominates thousands of people. In fact, there is only one thing. The so-called study is not reading and writing articles, how can these things affect people? It's not clear, I don't know how many heroes and heroes have been delayed here!"
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